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Change Starts With Awareness

  • Writer: Melanie Briony
    Melanie Briony
  • 5 days ago
  • 1 min read

Most people think change starts with motivation.


I've learned it starts with awareness.


Before we can change eating habits, stress patterns, sleep routines or self-care behaviours, we first need to notice what’s actually happening inside us.


  • Are we physically hungry?

  • Emotionally overwhelmed?

  • Exhausted?

  • Overstimulated?

  • Disconnected?

  • Running on autopilot?


Woman sitting on a bench at sunset, looking out over the hills and valleys

So many of us have spent years following external rules that we’ve lost touch with our own internal signals.


  • What to eat.

  • When to eat.

  • How much to eat.

  • How we “should” look.

  • How we “should” behave.


Eventually, the noise becomes so loud that it becomes difficult to recognise the difference between physical hunger, emotional discomfort, stress, fatigue or simply the need to slow down.


This is where interoception matters.


Not as another wellness buzzword, but as the ability to notice and interpret what your body is communicating.


Because sometimes the body isn’t asking for food.


  • Sometimes it’s asking for rest.

  • Space.

  • Calm.

  • Relief.

  • Support.


That doesn’t mean nutrition no longer matters. It doesn’t mean goals no longer matter either.

But sustainable change becomes much harder when we are constantly disconnected from ourselves.


This is a big part of the direction I’m moving further into with my work.


Not just weight loss.

Not just exercise.

But helping women better understand the relationship between stress, sleep, hunger, self-awareness, nervous system state and behaviour.


Because awareness changes the starting point.


And from there, more intentional choices become possible.


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Melanie Briony acknowledges the Awabakal People as the traditional custodians of the land on which she lives and works, and honours the Ancestors who have long cared for this Country. She offers her work on these lands and waters with respect for Elders past and present.

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